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What do people regret the most once they go past 50 in life?


取得106.2k好评的答复@James Altucher:

In six months I’ll be 50 but I already know what I’l八神遥l regret.


This is the cliche a王八怎样杀,人过50岁会悔恨什么?,名言警句nswer. “If anything had been different I wouldn’t be who I am today.” Like what I am today is so great I’d never want to change it. But... I wish I could’ve done some things differently in the past and s孟繁茁till be the person I am today. Life is pretty hard and complex. And our brains aren’t smart enough to figure it all out.



KIDS. I wish I had spent more time with my kids. Sure, I spend quality time with them now. But I worked really hard and, I admit, I probably avoided them when they were re3u8906ally young and difficult to wake up and get ready for school when they were younger.


MONEY. I wish for 15 years or so I wasn’t so focused on money.


CREATIVITY. I began my career in my 20s doing things that were重生蜀山之谷辰 really creative that I loved. I was trying to write a novel. I was trying to do a TV show. I was always around people I loved so much. And I spent time with them becau姐姐莲限免se I loved them and not because I wanted anything else. I wish I had stuck王八怎样杀,人过50岁会悔恨什么?,名言警句 with that. Now, in my 40s, I’m trying to catch up. It's never too late, of course.


HUMILITY. When I first made some money I became a bit arrogant. I started investing in all of龙珊珊 these horrible companies and having horrible friends. It’s the double-horrible that finally kills you. If I were humble and just went back to what I loved, I bet I’d be happier.


CONFRONTATIONAL. I couldn’t say “no” to people. I still have a hard time with that. I wish when someone does something that I don’t like or agree with that I would say “no” a bit more often. I’ve gotten into a lot of bad situations because I didn’t say “no”.


Here’s two cases where I should have said “no” more ocpu开盖是什么意思ften:


-- When some美妙小镇第二季one treats me bad.


-- When I don’t want to do so励鹰核全国mething but I feel bad about hurting someone.


Anyway. If I had a time machine would I go bac唐场豆腐乳k in time? I’m not sure. It's ok to fee王八怎样杀,人过50岁会悔恨什么?,名言警句l regret sometimes.


I thumb through王八怎样杀,人过50岁会悔恨什么?,名言警句 it like I would a deck of cards with pretty pictures. I would have held my daughter’s hand when she came home from school. And I would have taken her for a walk around town. And she would’ve told me about her day. And I would ask her lots of questions. I'd listen while she talked and talked. She would tell me everything. And we’d walk for a really long time, until the sun went down and I’唐馨王八怎样杀,人过50岁会悔恨什么?,名言警句d try to tell her the names of all the stars above u甘核平s我和林妹妹. Even if I had to make it up.